Black romance, a mini-pod, and a soft revolution. Sign up for updates on my forthcoming book, Real Soft Girl Shit: A Womanist Reclamation of Black Girl Vulnerability. Hi Reader, I’m writing to you from Paris. I spend a month here every year. I always say that I come to cry and be dramatic but also I come because I have found space, as a Black Girl In Paris, to be a version of myself that I quite enjoy. I'm so expansive and possible here. I wrote a little about how Paris is a particular,...
about 1 month ago • 4 min read
Sign up for updates on my forthcoming book, Real Soft Girl Shit: A Womanist Reclamation of Black Girl Vulnerability. Hi Reader, Did you know I’m a trained theologian? Like, I went to school to study the nature of God and how our relationships with God develop. Growing up Black Southern Baptist, the threat of hell was so real. Yes, in church we learned of God’s grace and mercy, but the threat of burning eternally remained a constant theme of discourse, even into my early thirties. As a Black...
3 months ago • 2 min read
Invite a friend to subscribe to this newsletter! Hi Reader! I'm in the midst of writing my next book, and in this process, I've been sitting with what it means to be vulnerable, not solely as an idea, but I desire to be vulnerable as a practice. I want to share a moment of reflection with you: Vulnerability is a request to be treated like I’m precious. It helps me ask for what I need. When I ask for what I need, I am able to move forward into and expand softness. I am able to trust myself in...
5 months ago • 1 min read
Invite a friend to join my newsletter Hi Reader, I have learned that vulnerability in relationships is an invitation to co-create softness within that relationship because I co-create the possibility of removing harm so that we can have more space to become familiar with myself and trust myself. The definition of vulnerability: the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. Vulnerability opens the possibility of being...
6 months ago • 2 min read
Scroll down to listen to the podcast! Hi Reader, Happy National Women’s Her-story Month! I’m 30+ years in this game of activism, organizing, and political strategy both online and in the streets. March's newsletter is a little reminder to the Black girls that - especially in this political climate - dreaming and softness are valid tools for resisting the white supremacist status quo. Connecting the dots between dreaming and softness: Softness creates the inner conditions necessary for...
7 months ago • 2 min read
Hi Reader! Reaching toward our dreams offers a beautiful sense of liberation and freedom—a reminder that life is so much more than the work we do. While work is a necessary part of life, it’s worth considering how often we work so hard for others and neglect our own need for dreaming, rest, and joy. Dreaming, resting, and embracing joy are not indulgences. They’re powerful acts of resistance against white supremacy and patriarchal oppression. They remind us of our humanity and our right to...
8 months ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, I must share with you a quote from a recent lecture I did last week: "She told them that the only grace they could have was the grace they could imagine. That if they could not see it, they would not have it." - From Beloved by Toni Morrison In this lecture on Dreaming as Radical Resistance, I spoke about Beloved by Toni Morrison and the visuals from Lemonade as sacred text because of how they tell us where we are going, how we are headed there, ways to deepen our dreaming, how...
11 months ago • 2 min read
Hi Reader! I hope you are well. This letter is jam packed full of some of the meaningful conversations I’ve been having recently. Please enjoy the insights from the videos below, and after listening, check out our featured read from All The Black Girls Are Activists, "In Pursuit of Madness." Please donate to Emma’s Legacy Foundation, my 501(c)(3) nonprofit. Your support directly empowers us to continue supporting Black Women in Diasporic Healing. To invite me to your podcast, email...
12 months ago • 2 min read
"My name is EbonyJanice. I go by EbonyJanice. Which means you should call me EbonyJanice." Hi Reader! I hope your are well. In All The Black Girls Are Activists: A Fourth Wave Womanist Pursuit of Dreams as Radical Resistance, I touch on the historical impact white supremacy has on naming: The intentional stripping and renaming of our African ancestors was used to remove identity to dehumanize and assimilate them. White people re-naming others is a deep-rooted relationship with their...
about 1 year ago • 1 min read